a restriction is the point beyond that you do not allow Dominants to go. вЂњSoft restrictionsвЂќ are things that youвЂ™re mostly against, however in specific circumstances may decide to try. For instance, consuming urine is a soft restriction because of this writer вЂ” an act maybe not done generally in most circumstances, but possibly for unique occasions (similar to this 12 months’s Folsom Street Fair). Smooth restrictions may alter as time passes. A вЂњhard limit,вЂќ by comparison, is nonnegotiable. This author’s difficult restrictions would be the presence of bleeding and/or feces. If just one of the appear during a scene, IвЂ™m completed, and playtime stops.
9. Secure Term
Safe words are vital for novices and experienced kinksters alike. A word that is safe a word or expression that submissives use to cease a scene. Like difficult restrictions, safe terms are nonnegotiable. If a Dom ignores a word that is safe these are typically considered вЂњunsafeвЂќ and won’t be welcomed within the kink community. We donвЂ™t like unsafe Doms since they really can harm individuals. The industry standard safe word is вЂњred,вЂќ so thatвЂ™s what most kinksters use in kink porn. TheвЂњsafe wordвЂќ is not a word at all since being gagged is one of this writer’s biggest turn-ons.